Real estate tycoon Sze-tsung is desperate to see his daughter married off to a man. So desperate in fact that he has offered a whopping $180,000,000 to any man that can turn his beloved daughter straight. To make matters worse, this daughter Gigi is not even single. In fact she is happily married to long term partnered Sean Eav. A marriage which her father refuses to accept as “real”.
The South China Morning Post explained that Billionaire Cecil Chao Sze-tsung was interviewed by Malaysian newspaper Nanyang Siang Pau. In this interview Cecil Chao insisted that his daughter was in fact single and added that it was not too late to change her thinking.
His daughter, Gigi Chao, responded to this by writing a poignant open letter (which is just over the page) to her father. It should be noted that Sze-tsung is known for his outlandish statements and has in the past claimed to have slept with 10,000 women.
After being unwillingly thrust into the spotlight, Gigi wrote an open letter to her father which was published by the South China Morning Post. In this truly touching letter (posted below), Gigi speaks openly to her father about her relationship: “My regret is that you have no idea how happy I am with my life.”
I thought the timing was right for us to have a candid conversation.
You are one of the most mentally astute, energetic yet well mannered and hard-working people this humble earth has ever known.
Your confidence, quick wit, and charisma brightens any room you enter.
I love you very much, and I think I can speak for my brothers also, that we have the utmost respect for you as a father and role model in business.
I am sorry that people have been saying insensitive things about you lately. The truth is, they don’t understand that I will always forgive you for thinking the way you do, because I know you think you are acting in my best interests. And we both don’t care if anybody else understands.
As your daughter, I would want nothing more than to make you happy. But in terms of relationships, your expectations of me and the reality of who I am, are not coherent.
I am responsible for some of this misplaced expectation, because I must have misled you to hope there were other options for me. You know I’ve had male lovers in the past, and I’ve had happy, albeit short-lived, relationships. I found myself temporarily happy, buoyed by the freshness, the attention, the interest, of someone physically stronger than myself.
But it was always short-lived, as I quickly lost patience, and felt an indescribable discomfort in their presence. It usually made me frustrated, and I would yearn for my freedom again. I’ve broken a few hearts, hearts of good, honest and loving men, and I’m sorry that it had to be so.
But with Sean, a woman, somehow it was different. I am comfortable and satisfied with my life and completely at ease with her. I know it’s difficult for you to understand how I could feel romantically attracted to a woman; I suppose I can’t really explain it either. It just happens, peacefully and gently, and after so many years, we still love each other very much.
My regret is that you have no idea how happy I am with my life, and there are aspects of my life that you don’t share. I suppose we don’t need each other’s approval for our romantic relationships, and I am sure your relationships are really fantastic too.
However, I do love my partner Sean, who does a good job of looking after me, ensuring I am fed, bathed and warm enough every day, and generally cheering me up to be a happy, jolly girl. She is a large part of my life, and I am a better person because of her.
Now, I’m not asking you to be best of friends; however, it would mean the world to me if you could just not be so terrified of her, and treat her like a normal, dignified human being.
I understand it is difficult for you to understand, let alone accept this truth.
I’ve spent a lot of time figuring out who I am, what is important in my life, who I love and how best to live life, as an expression of all these questions. I am proud of my life, and I would not choose to live it any other way (except also figuring out how to be gentler on the planet).
I’m sorry to mislead you to think I was only in a lesbian relationship because there was a shortage of good, suitable men in Hong Kong.
There are plenty of good men, they are just not for me.
Wishing you happiness.
Your daughter, Gigi.”
Despite her pleas, thousands of people have come forward to take her father up on his offer and claim that sizeable $180,000,000. Gigi also told The Times: “Since Dad thinks it’s so easy for me to switch from gay to straight, I should just leave it for him to demonstrate. I think I’ll marry a man when he marries a man.” Which I assume won’t be happening any time soon.
Mr Chao did however respond and let’s just say his reply (which is just over the page) is almost but not quite a victory for Gigi.