Whatever anyone holds as an opinion about you is basically their headache not yours. Yes peoples’ views are measures through which we can gauge our character most times. But such opinions are to be weighed on the scale of truth to see what is factual and which is not.
So anyone doesn’t define you as accurately as you would, yourself. Learn to live as you only own yourself. What you owe the world is kindness and not for you to totally sell yourself at your detriments.
The opinion which other people have of you is their problem, not yours.. Elisabeth Kubler Ross