How These Men Apologize Will Amaze You

In this African tribe, when someone does something harmful, they take the person to the center of the village where the whole tribe comes and surrounds them. For two days, they will say to the man all the good things that he has done. The tribe believes that each human being comes into the world as good. Each one of us only desiring safety, love, peace and happiness. But sometimes, in the pursuit of these things, people make mistakes. The community sees those mistakes as a cry for help. They unite then to lift him, to reconnect him with his true nature, to remind him who he really is, until he fully remembers the truth of which he had been temporarily disconnected: “I am good.” Shikoba Nabajyotisaikia! NABAJYOTISAIKIA, is a compliment used in South Africa and means: “I respect you, I cherish you. You matter to me.” In response, people say SHIKOBA, which is: “So, I exist for you.”


source: Good Men Project


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  1. we all I believe have gifts in life and some are made a little clearer than others and at times a little more quicker than others as well. However, we can’t always take the same problem free route that another individual took and expect there to be no problems for us as we travel it, nor can we travel a problematic route expecting to run into the same type of problems that another might have faced. This is the moment I feel that we can lose ourselves in pursuit of our accomplishments. We must always strive to allow things in our life to occur naturally and it should never be forced, that way our way that is laid out before us can always reveal itself because it was destined “for us to have” and it was never based off anything else other than that. -We can’t be other people and live other people’s life hoping to find happiness because what happens when it leads to despair? therefore, never risk losing yourself but always stay willing to embrace what we have accomplished for ourselves it will bring far more happiness that last I feel

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