Here are some of the common lies peddled in relationships by lovers
Being in a relationship means you have chosen either to be very committed or at some time to suffer heartbreak, or even hurt the other person.
But to avoid being hurt, or hurting their partners, people have had to put up with lies as a means of survival.
Here we look at the seven lies that people tell either to survive or to avoid hurting their partners.
1. I didn’t sleep with anyone during our break
This is a lie usually peddled by men. They would swear that they never slept with any other girl for the time you two had a disagreement, yet he hosted several of them at his apartment. Ladies too find solace in being laid by another man when they break.
2. The baby is yours
Even with the DNA tests in place, some ladies would lie to men with a hard face that the child she is carrying is his even when they are sure it is a lie.
Ladies normally do this to either trap the man they want or when they think the man is financially well off or when they have no option.
3. I have never cheated in any of my past relationships
Bro, if she tells you this, do not trust her 100%.
Siz, if he comes out with this narrative, be sure he is making a fool out of you. This is a very common lie when people are starting a relationship.
4. I will always love you and be there for you no matter what
Yet again, another blatant lie. Not even your mother, father will be there for you when you are hauled into the cell, for instance. Who is he/she to claim they will be there for you? Forget it.
5. You are very good in bed
Lovers believe if they criticize their partner’s bedroom failures, they will break the relationship. They would rather hide the truth and lie to eternity. At some point, you are bound to be horrible in bed. So if she tells you you are always the perfect guy, trust me she is lying.
6. It is not small
Be it the bum, the penis or the vagina, your partner is not going to degrade you by saying it is not big enough. They would pamper you with the lie that it is big enough and they are ok with it.
7. I am not jealous, just have fun
Just for the sake of it, your partner will allow you to visit your male friend or female colleague and even say they are ok with it. But that is a lie. They are envious and feel the pain but because they don’t want to look like they care, they would rather lie.