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Banyankole: The Tribe in Uganda Which Allows Bride’s Aunt to Sleep With Groom Before Marriage

Africa is one of the continents of the world with diverse traditions. Earlier today we reported about how some African countries prepare their women for marriage. However, there is one tribe in Uganda whose way of preparing its women for marriage differs completely from other African tribes. The question now is ‘How much influence should aunties have on their nieces? In many African cultures, aunties provide counselling to their young nieces as they age from adolescence to adulthood. When it comes to marriage, these aunties prepare their nieces for the challenges that lie ahead.

But for the Banyankole people in Southwestern Uganda, the aunt does more than the above, especially during the marriage.

When a couple wants to get married, the primary responsibility of the bride’s aunt is to carry out a sexual check on both her niece and her nephew-in-law. Essentially, the aunt does this by having sex with the groom to check his potency and virility.

She also has to “test” if the bride is still a virgin before they are allowed to consummate their marriage.

In other traditions, the aunt is said to go as far as listening in or watching as the bride and groom have sex in order to prove the couple’s potency.


A marriage ceremony in Uganda —

Inasmuch as this practice may sound weird, it shows how the people of Banyankole hold virginity in high esteem.

As soon as a Banyankole girl is eight, she goes through a lot of restrictions to prepare her for marriage.

When other children her age in other cultures are out having fun and playing, a girl in this part of Uganda is mostly kept indoors, where she is fed beef and millet porridge and forced to drink milk in large quantities so that she becomes fat.

Being fat is synonymous with beauty among the Banyankoles.

When she starts developing breasts, she is also asked by her parents to abstain from sexual activities.

It is the duty of a Banyankole father to find a wife for his son as he pays the bridewealth as well. This consists of some cows, goats and pots of beer, depending on how rich a person is.

Once the bride price is paid, the marriage preparations begin. On the wedding day, there is a lot of feasting at the bride’s home, where the father is expected to slaughter a bull.

At the bridegroom’s home, there is another feast where the marriage is consummated. This is after the bride’s aunt has “tested” her niece’s purity and slept with the groom to also check his potency.



Written by How Africa


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  1. How Africa, I’m afraid this is content infringement. This story was not properly credited to the source. It was originally published by Face2face Africa. Please address this serious matter immediately. Thanks!

  2. This have never happened in our culture of banyankole. Go and turnish other tribes not banyankore please. We don’t have that rubbish in nkore culture and our girls can’t get married at 8 years. They are all in schools how comes u say they prepare themselves for marriage at that early age .the reason why banyankole take care of there young girls they don’t wanticipate them to get spoilt by boys at an early young age thatso the reason why they don’t go outside to play games of hide and seek with other kids outside there homes unlike other tribes .it’s only done in buganda central part of Uganda where the bride sleep with the auntie of his groom before they are officially married the tribe is called baganda .they do pull there young girls at 10years old there labia critoris to look long and cover there vaginal holes and it’s compulsory for them to visit there aunts and be taught sex lessons from teNigerian age

  3. Most men won’t mind being tested by an aunt. But what if the aunt got pregnant in the process? Besides, I’m sure this tradition is no longer practiced by the Bayankoles. Anyway, there was a cultural practice amongst the Tivs of Benue where a visitor (usually a very good friend) would be voluntarily given his host’s wife to sleep with as a sign of respect and appreciation of him. Which do you feel seems wackier, the Bayankoles’ or the Tivs’?

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