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African Cultures: Check Out 4 Exciting Ways Africa Prepare Women for Marriage

In most African societies, women are required to get wedded when they grow up. Marriage was extremely stressed on to the degree that deliberate preparations are made ahead of time, even as right on time as a young lady is born.


Here are some of the ways women were prepared for marriage.

Mauritanian women [Photo: Gerardo Amechazurra Wiki cc]

Force Fattening in Mauritania

In Mauritania, girls as young as seven are placed on a strict fattening diet in a practice called Leblouh. The process involves feeding children copious amounts of porridge and couscous among other meals to fatten them so that they can be chosen for marriage. The community views heavier women as pretty and as a sign of wealth and the slim counterparts as a shame to the family.

Recently, the practice has come under scrutiny, with rights activists stating that it exposes the girls to heart problems and diabetes, according to Reuters.

[Photo UNICEF / Olivier Asselin/ Wiki CC]

Female Genital Mutilation (FGM), Across Africa

This is a practice by different cultures across Africa, where a girl’s sexual organs are cut or modified to mark the transition from a girl to a woman.  It is also a sign that the girl is ready for marriage.


A number of African countries have outlawed FGM because of the harm and distress to the girls. According to the World Health Organisation, the practice has no health benefits for girls and women and can cause “cause severe bleeding and problems urinating, and later cysts, infections, as well as complications in childbirth and increased risk of newborn deaths.”

Music and dance at a traditional Ugandan wedding [Photo: By Douglaseru/Wiki CC

Visiting the Ssenga in Uganda

In Uganda, girls as young as 15  are taken to a paternal aunt’s, called Ssenga for training on how to conduct themselves within a marriage.

“Away from the general conduct, love and respect, there are certain rituals paternal aunts perform for girls to become real women. While at the aunt’s place, a girl is taught about the good and bad side of marriage, how to deal with marital issues and then cautioned to be resilient in case of challenges,” Charles Lwanga Busuulwa, a ceremonial spokesperson told the Daily Monitor.

Ndebele Village, Mpumalanga, South Africa [Photo: South African Tourism/Flickr]

Ndebele’s Bride Seclusion 

Just like in Uganda, the Ndebele community of Southern Africa would teach the girls everything they need to know about marriages. Only, for them, the lessons are conducted weeks before the wedding, with the bride hidden away in a practice referred to as Bukhazi.


Written by How Africa

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