Men are known to have their little secret zone where they take refuge as soon as they have a problem, either to think about rested head or because they have a thought that they prefer not to share. But this little refuge attracts the curiosity of women who try by all means to know what is going on there. In this article, we will allow you ladies to take a quick look at it indiscreetly. So discover the 10 things that men hide from their wives, most especially African men.!
9 things that a man hides from his wife:
1 – He would still like to be 25
Even if he is now more mature and his physical appearance still earns admiring glances from the female, a man will always think with a little bit of regret at his 25 years. This does not mean that he will leave you for a bimbo of several years his younger or that it will integrate a band of Rock, but the knowledge will help you a little better to understand it when it happens all content of its last acquisition : An original CD from his favorite youth band or a leather jacket decorated with nails.
2 – He is terrified when you’re driving
Men generally love women happy and self-confident, but when it comes to the performance of these drivers, they become quite reluctant. Despite all their efforts to believe in you, they are reduced to a mass of trembling flesh as soon as you turn the ignition key. It is only their diplomatic side that prevents them from entrusting you with the impression of being a collision test mannequin every time they pass on the passenger side.
3 – He does not often understand
Women often take the time to reconsider their relationship and analyze it, and do not hesitate to share their findings with their companion. But the latter, even if he nods his head by way of approval and he declares to understand you, it is not! Not because of lack of will but rather because the region of the brain that he will use to understand is already used to store information about his hobbies, favorite sports and latest car models!
4 – He will lie to you to avoid disputes
Lying, even if it comes from a good intention is not the best thing to do. However, men sometimes use it to calm the tense atmosphere of their relationship with their partner or to avoid a dispute. So they will pretend to be in agreement or that they acknowledge their misdeed not to see you climbing on your big horses!
5 – He likes to be a mother but does not want you to be like his mother
Do we not often hear that men are souls of children hidden in the bodies of adults? It is true that our big babies love to be cuddled, pampered and forgiven every time they derailed, but they have however a strong anxiety to find themselves faced with a copy of their mother. Even though they have an infallible love for the latter, it always keeps a specter of authority, a bit ..
6 – He has a fairly delicate self-esteem
Some men have no trouble admitting their faults or laughing at them, their ego remains a red line not to be approached. Very sensitive on this point, many men need to be reassured and to know that they are, in the eyes of their women, the best partners and the best performers. If they ever doubt their importance in the couple, their ego takes a hell of a blow!
7 – He sometimes just wanted you to be silent
The communication capacities of men and women are different because their brains are organized in two distinct ways. Men tend to be less inclined to talk and put words on their feelings, which means that the effort they make to do it at the office depletes all their energy. This is why, when returning, they usually have only one desire: enjoy a soothing and restorative silence.
8 – He is afraid of commitment, even after taking the step
Men are not all the same, that is why we find those who put a knee on the ground to ask for the hand of their darling and promise to him love and fidelity for eternity … and the others! Those who do not stop collecting conquests and play the Don Juan of modern times. Moreover, to admit that they will sooner or later “get” themselves, takes them a few years or even a few decades.
9 – He also has his own fears
Below their iron shell and their men’s steel men’s, men also experience fear, but excellent in the art of concealing it! So, even if he has a heart beating at the sight of a spider, or if he has tears in his eyes just by thinking that he may one day lose a loved one, An impassive face and bury his emotion in the depths of his being.